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David K. ShiplerA modern alternative to SparkNotes and CliffsNotes, SuperSummary offers high-quality Study Guides with detailed chapter summaries and analysis of major themes, characters, and more.
A number of women at the edge of poverty are survivors of sexual abuse. The chapter opens with an account of a 10-year-old girl who could not believe that everyone had not been raped. The same girl ended up pregnant at the age of 18, unsure which of three men was the father of her child. The trauma of sexual abuse is fundamental to the subject’s loss of agency: “Lost is the very notion that real choice exists, that decisions taken now can make a difference later. A paralyzing powerlessness sets in, and that mixes corrosively with other adversities that deprive those in or near poverty of the ability to affect change” (144).
Sexual abuse among low-income families emerges as one mechanism of transmitting poverty from one generation to the next, as the abused are more likely to become pregnant younger and have dysfunctional relationships with men. It leads to more single-parent households where fathers may or may not support their offspring. Addiction is also rife as a means of coping for young women who are sexually abused.
Sexual abuse affects a mother’s ability to nurture her children as she cuts off emotionally, is defensive, and cannot sustain empathy. In turn, neglectful parenting can have further reaching consequences in poverty, where the child is more exposed and cannot purchase buffers such as therapy.
Parenting programs, albeit of a fragmentary nature, are being set up around the country to help parents circumvent their special challenges and give their children the best chance of thriving. In one program in Baltimore, Delaware, traumatized parents are required to receive parenting instructions along with their welfare checks. One abused mother, Jackie, had to receive such support because her upbringing had given her no model of “intuitive knowledge of how to give their children the companionship, the deference, the empowerment, that adult-child play promotes” (164). In the program, Jackie learns to compliment, encourage, and focus on developing her children’s abilities.
Some form of group therapy and support is also beneficial for mothers who may be suffering from depression or loneliness. Many times, these women are children themselves. They allow themselves to get pregnant as a means of rebellion and then resent their children for stealing their own childhoods.
Sometimes as with the romantic story of Tom and Kara King, a traumatic childhood, past abusive relationships, and economic hardship do not rule out the possibilities of love. Parents to three children, Tom and Kara have a household full of love while facing problems with their health and employment: “Kinship blunts the edge of economic adversity” (179). Shipler writes that a familial bond makes the impoverished person feel less isolated, even as he or she battles hardships. As in Kara’s case, she struggles with the debt of an unpaid divorce bill from a previous marriage and an aggressive lymphoma, which she attempts to treat by becoming part of a medical trial. As Kara’s cancer advances, Tom is able to draw on the support of his friend Kurt, who goes to work in his place. Although Kara is hopeful until the end and does what she can to survive the cancer, she dies, leaving the family devastated.
A year later, Tom has adopted Kara’s boys and they are living with their animals, including rabbits and an enormous pig called Emma, in “the middle of a grown-up’s playground where […] the children were learning[…] by getting their hands dirty, by making things work, by caring for animals, by taking responsibility” (187). One of the boys, Zach, who is very artistic, likes school and wishes to be an architect. Even though he becomes Homecoming King, his SAT scores are not high enough to attend the college of his choice, and he cannot afford the courses that affluent students use to improve their scores. He therefore elects to enlist in the Air Force.
Ann Brash also nurtures close family ties with her children and chooses poverty over working numerous shifts and leaving their education unsupervised. As a result, her children do well, as her son goes to Dartmouth and her daughter to the New England Conservatory of Music. The family’s close bonds and cultural capital means they do not feel poor in the conventional sense of the word. Overall, Shipler indicates that strong family ties can make poverty bearable and can even offer opportunities to rise out of it.
Of all the expenses a poor family has, food is the most flexible and can be cut to the bare minimum. It is also difficult for disrupted families to keep track of how often and how much a small child is eating. The result of this is a number of malnourished children in America.
Services such as the Grow Clinic in Boston Medical Center aim to eradicate child malnourishment, advising impoverished parents how to better nourish their children, especially when conditions such as allergies create further challenges. Other work includes advising immigrant parents who are clueless about American food and feed their babies potato chips and soda, even though they were able to manage a competent diet in their own cultures. The degree of treatment received for malnourished children depends on the state. Boston fares better than the rural South.
Cultural clashes abound between medical professionals and African Americans and Latinos, who often feel judged by doctors. The result is that the infant mortality rate of black babies is 2.4 times higher that of white babies, owing to the mothers’ inferior medical care, untreated vaginal infections, and nutritional deficits. For Latino families, language can be a barrier to seeking the help they need.
Malnourishment leads to learning difficulties. Learning is secondary when a child is malnourished because the organism is tuned towards survival qualities first. Iron deficiency, in a pregnant woman's final trimester as well as in the baby’s first years of life, can also limit brain growth. Studies are in conflict with regard to whether intelligence is inherited or acquired through nurture, but Shipler concludes that “genetic predispositions are believed to interact with an individual’s experience to enhance or diminish not only his biological health but his intellectual success” (222). This means that poverty and lack of adequate medical care can lead to cognitive and emotional deficits.
Poor housing is a cause of stress, and structural problems, such as dampness, can affect and trigger asthma and more severe lung problems. It is often lawyers, not doctors, who call landlords to change these adverse living conditions.
Chapters 6-8 have shown how the bodies of the poor are often under far greater stresses than those of the affluent. Poor nutrition during a mother’s pregnancy and the first years of a baby's life can hinder a child’s physical, mental, and cognitive development. Shipler shows how inadequate nutritional awareness and systemic factors such as stingy landlords who are reluctant to make repairs on unsafe housing and the demands of inflexible bosses all contribute to poor health. Shipler’s conclusion is that “[b]lessed are the poor who have lawyers on their side,” (230) which implies that to some amoral authority figures, the health of the poor does not matter in its own right, but only when they are in danger of being sued or reprimanded by a higher authority.
Shipler also demonstrates how the stresses of dysfunctional families, crowded housing, and poor nutrition are the breeding grounds for sexual abuse and teenage pregnancy. The sense that a subject’s body is not completely hers, safe and under control, leads to numerous behavioral and developmental problems and often the inability to nurture and connect with her own children. Sexual abuse and early pregnancy are repeated in the next generation, meaning that there is a marked pattern of fragile young women unable to fully defend and care for themselves and their children.
At the outset of his study, Shipler cites that strong family and community connections are one of the essential preconditions for rising out of poverty. In Chapter 7, using the examples of Tom and Kara King and Ann Brash, he shows how strong familial bonds can make the blight of poverty somewhat more bearable. He also illustrates that the positive dynamic in the King and Brash households is mirrored in the families’ relationships with their local community. In all cases, they form close bonds with people who are willing to help them. While familial love alone cannot solve a poor family’s problems or ensure the success of the offspring, a stable and benign environment enables children to think beyond survival, pursue their interests, and imagine a career path.