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Abraham Verghese is the author and narrator of the book. He was born to Indian parents and raised in Africa. Abraham began his medical training in Ethiopia before continuing it in India and America, where he eventually became a naturalized citizen (“Biography.” Abraham Verghese). Abraham’s early years of working in medicine coincided with the AIDS epidemic, and as an internal medicine specialist, he treated and cared for a large number of patients with HIV. At a time when there was medically nothing available to treat or manage AIDS, Abraham witnessed a large number of “premature and tragic deaths” (“Biography”). His experience of the AIDS epidemic also brought him in contact with a large number of intravenous drug users, leaving him no stranger to David’s world, or the grief of David’s premature and tragic death.
Abraham views himself to be a “restless” and “secretive” person. His recollections of childhood memories indicate that he witnessed a significant amount of conflict at home, and he escaped these tensions through the solitary, physical activities of cycling and tennis. As an adult, Abraham is equally introverted. He does not make a great effort to network or socialize when he arrives in El Paso. For a long time, David is his only friend, and the only social activity he engages in outside of family time is tennis with David. This is fueled by the connection he feels with David because of the latter’s similarly reclusive nature and their shared love for tennis.
Along with being reserved, however, Abraham is also intelligent and hardworking. He is passionate about both tennis and medicine and is willing to work and improve at both. Abraham is well-versed in and comfortable with the diagnostic and teaching aspects of his job, making astute observations of patients and instructing and mentoring students with ease. He brings this same dedication and diligence to his tennis games with David. The Tennis Partner chronicles the friendship between Abraham and David that grows within the context of these tennis games. What comes through in this story is Abraham’s ability to introspect about and learn from even the tough situations in life.
Furthermore, Abraham’s experiences show the importance of relationships and social support to protect against mental health struggles. Despite being a self-professed recluse, Abraham still demonstrates the ability and willingness to engage deeply with the people in his life. He does so with David, but also with his patients; their stories and backgrounds are as important and pertinent to Abraham as their illnesses. Abraham’s empathy, compassion, and capacity for self-reflection are what allow him to connect with David as well as learn from their friendship and David’s life story.
David Smith was an Australian medical student and intern at Texas Tech during Abraham’s time there. He was a professional tennis player before he began his medical education. He was also addicted to cocaine. The book revolves around Abraham’s friendship with David, ending when David succumbs to his disease.
David was a talented man. Abraham was constantly impressed by David’s skill and performance during his rotation in internal medicine. David’s graduation from medical school, despite his multiple relapses, is a testament to the affinity he had for the field. He was an equally talented tennis player, with Abraham often admiring David’s game when they played. By David’s own admission, if he had had more money to stay on tour longer, he could have gone places. In addition to being talented, David was also extremely charming. Despite coming across as shy and somewhat reserved, he never had any trouble finding romantic partners, whether they were steady girlfriends or short-term affairs.
David also displayed a tendency towards thrill-seeking behavior, and an inability to engage with things slowly and deeply. He admits to Abraham that he is deeply attracted to the excitement and fringe benefits that the life of a tennis player provides, which eventually turned toxic for him. This pursuit of adrenaline is reflected in David’s dual addictions to cocaine and sex, as well as his preferred branch of medicine. This, combined with the lack of a strong social network and his history of family trauma, predisposes David to The Disease of Addiction.
David’s inherent talent and potential are constantly overshadowed by his addiction and related behavior. People at the hospital are wary of him because of his history, and David himself sabotages his relationships with the people who are close to him through infidelity, dishonesty, and drug use. David’s secrecy and the emotional walls he puts up feed into the difficulties he faces in interpersonal relationships. He is highly avoidant of conflict, especially related to the things he is secretive about. There are things about David’s life and relationships that Abraham only learns inadvertently or through forced confrontation. David’s secrecy, combined with his drug use, intensifies his loneliness and sucks him further into addiction and isolation in a never-ending cycle.
Despite this, David was an important part of Abraham’s life for a time and was instrumental in helping Abraham cope with a rough period in his own life. Owing to this, and despite the tragic end David meets, Abraham’s memories of their friendship are bittersweet. It is impossible to erase the moments of real joy and camaraderie they shared facilitated by their tennis games.
Within the period of the book, Abraham’s family consisted of his wife, Rajani, and their two sons, Steven and Jacob. Over the course of the book, Abraham and Rajani get divorced, and Abraham moves out of their shared home. This is a tough time in Abraham’s life, and an experience bound to bring up feelings of loneliness. However, the presence of his family still forms an emotional anchor and gives his life meaning. After he moves out, Abraham’s weekends are dedicated to time spent with his sons, which he enjoys and deeply cherishes. Furthermore, despite the divorce being a tough change, it brings about an end to conflict in Abraham’s relationships rather than intensifying it. Despite Abraham’s past infidelity, the process of separating from Rajani is not an acrimonious one, and they are able to co-parent amicably. All of this contributes to ensuring that Abraham is not completely devastated. Despite his sadness, he is able to persevere without succumbing to self-destructive habits. Abraham recognizes and values the role that his family played in directing him away from this path.
Gloria and Emily are David’s most significant girlfriends. When Abraham first meets David, he is dating Gloria, whom he has been with for years. David eventually cheats on Gloria with Emily, and he moves in with her after Gloria breaks up with him.
Gloria stood by him during his last relapse. Because of this, despite David’s constant infidelity, he is unable and unwilling to let go of her. David professes deep love for Gloria, and he dreams of a future with her, despite behaving in paradoxical ways on occasion. He and Emily plan on moving in together while he is still with Gloria; however, he is left devastated when Gloria does break up with him, and he attempts to get back with her when she returns to El Paso. Having been through more than one relapse, however, Gloria recognizes David’s pattern of inconsistency and disappointment in relationships. She rebuffs his advances and washes her hands of all responsibility for him, for good. While Abraham initially resents Gloria and blames her for David’s troubles, he eventually comes to see Gloria in a different light.
David originally meets Emily in AA. Emily, too, struggles with an addiction, but to food. From the outset, this is a problematic relationship. David’s sponsor does not approve of David dating someone with an addiction as well, and he also does not think David is ready for a relationship. This proves to be the theme of David’s dynamic with Emily. With her, he rushes into things. He solidifies his relationship with Emily after Gloria breaks up with him, moving in with Emily promptly after. Their shared home is beautifully done up, and David disappears into domestic life for weeks on end, but Abraham notes that David appears trapped. David even proposes to Emily as a way to distract from his own difficult feelings about his mother, without actually resolving an ongoing conflict with Emily herself.
While on the one hand, David knows he ought to live this kind of life with a stable home and partner, the reality of what he wants and is truly ready for is vastly different. This is exposed through the contents of his journal and how he tries to win Gloria back while he is still with Emily. Over time, Emily recognizes this, and as with Gloria, she is the one to end things with David. However, in Gloria’s absence, David ends up relying solely on Emily for stability and emotional support, as is his pattern. Both of David’s relapses are triggered by conflict with Emily: He first relapses when Emily moves out, and then again when she breaks up with him for good.
By Abraham Verghese