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John Mark Comer

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to stay emotionally healthy and spiritually alive in the chaos of the modern world

Nonfiction | Book | Adult | Published in 2019

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Themes

The Dangers of a Hurried Lifestyle

Among the overarching themes of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry is a warning about the dangers of a hurried lifestyle. This is evident as early as the first chapter, in which John Mark Comer recounts a conversation between two of his mentor figures, John Ortberg and Dallas Willard (See: Key Figures), in which the latter advises that the former must “ruthlessly eliminate hurry from [his] life” (19) to become the kind of person he wants to be. Hurry is thus positioned as the great enemy of the contented life that people want to be living. By continually pushing people to fill up their schedules and move from one thing to another, the pace of life in contemporary society leaves many people feeling harried, exhausted, and empty, unable to find truly restorative rest in the midst of all of life’s demands.

Comer devotes the entirety of Part 1 to diagnosing the contours of this theme, and it recurs throughout the book as one of the root problems of modern life. He examines how Western culture has gotten to this point, driven by forces like the mechanization of timekeeping, the industrial revolution’s effects on work schedules, the development of a consumer-based economy saturated in advertising, and the seemingly endless distractions of entertainment and social media technologies. Each of these contributes to a hurried lifestyle, which Comer describes as “an act of violence on the soul” (47). With all of these forces of hurry arrayed against a healthy perspective on time, Comer regards the experience of overwhelmed exhaustion as nearly universal in contemporary American society.

The dangers of this lifestyle go beyond mere feelings of exhaustion, though. Comer details the deleterious effects of hurry throughout the book, which include negative impacts on physical health, emotional and mental well-being, relationships, and spirituality: “Hurry kills all that we hold dear: spirituality, health, marriage, family, thoughtful work, creativity, generosity” (53). Hurry’s negative impacts include common experiences and habits of life like irritability, hypersensitivity, restlessness, workaholism, emotional numbness, escapism, and isolation. “The point I’m driving toward is this,” writes Comer, “an overbusy, hurried life of speed is the new normal in the Western world, and it’s toxic” (52). In short, hurry so consumes one’s time that one no longer has the capacity to devote attention to the things that really matter in life. Those who are locked into a hurried lifestyle find themselves increasingly unable to enjoy the experiential richness of the present moment, since their attention is always being diverted elsewhere.

Apprenticeship to Jesus

Comer presents the solution to the problem of hurry as one of responding to Jesus’s invitation to follow him and take up his “easy yoke.” The idea of following Jesus is a common thread in Christian spirituality, often addressed with terms like “discipleship” or simply as being a Christian. In the Bible, Jesus’s chosen followers are often referred to as his “disciples.” Comer, however, supports Dallas Willard’s alternate translation for the Hebrew word (talmidim) which lies behind the terminology of “disciples.” Comer suggests that it would carry more of the original sense of the word into modern English if we translated it as “apprentices,” a term that more exactly captures the role held by students and followers of Jewish rabbis in the first century CE. This distinction is important in Comer’s analysis, because it encapsulates a mild critique of the way the Christian gospel has often been presented in the West, as a set of theological doctrines one should believe. Comer argues that being a true follower of Jesus is not only a matter of believing the right things about him, but of living the same kind of lifestyle he did, observing and applying his philosophy of life to one’s own: “The whole point of apprenticeship is to model all of your life after Jesus” (77).

This idea is presented in the book as early as the Prologue, but finds its clearest articulation in Parts 2 and 3. Comer addresses this theme by observing and examining the way Jesus lived, as portrayed in the biblical gospels, and then drawing applications for how one might live by the same principles in modern society. As Comer puts it, “If you want to experience the life of Jesus, you have to adopt the lifestyle of Jesus” (82). This is not presented as an escape from the difficulty of life, a magical fix for the troubles of contemporary culture, but rather as the patient process of learning a new way of life which, although it still has a “yoke,” is nonetheless an easier weight to bear: “Jesus doesn’t offer us an escape. He offers us something far better: ‘equipment.’ He offers his apprentices a whole new way to bear the weight of our humanity: with ease” (88).

In studying the way Jesus lives in the gospel accounts, Comer draws applications for four main sets of practices to apply to one’s life: silence and solitude, Sabbath observance, simplicity, and habits of slowing down. These are all classic elements of the centuries-long traditions of Christian spiritual formation, and Comer notes that they are rooted in the pattern of life established by Jesus himself: “Jesus’ life rhythms, or the details of his lifestyle, have come to the called the ‘spiritual disciplines.’ […] I prefer to call them the ‘practices of Jesus’” (104-05). By taking these practices of Jesus and applying them to our lives, we can grow in the virtues of love, joy, and peace, as we learn to focus our attention on the abiding presence of God, with us in the present moment. Being an apprentice of Jesus, then, is a path of personal transformation that enables one to deepen one’s relationship with God and with others, to become the sort of person who inhabits each moment fully, without being distracted or pulled along to something else.

The Importance of Living in the Present Moment

The practical result of the inner transformation that Comer envisages is the ability to fully inhabit the present moment. The disease of hurry constantly pulls us away from the present, toward future tasks or possessions to buy or distractions to draw our attention away from where we really are. Comer reminds his readers that it is the present, not the future, in which they truly live. Only by focusing attention on where we are and who we are with can we find space to connect with God and others, to find the rest we so desperately need: “I want to be fully present to the moment: to God, other people, work in the world, and my own soul. That’s more than enough to consume my attention” (235). A lifestyle of hurry, by contrast, is one in which we are constantly being pulled away from the present moment: away into the future by our obsession with moving faster or getting to the next task, away into the imagined fulfillment of our desires by our consumer spending, or away from our surroundings by diving into the sea of distractions available to us on our smartphones and TVs.

Comer focuses on this thematic element most prominently in Part 3 and the Epilogue. The practices of Jesus which he enjoins are designed to help us slow down, letting our priorities structure our time rather than what most people do: letting the rush of time push them into ways of living that leave no space for their most deeply held values. Comer argues that it is only by reclaiming our awareness of the present moment by slowing down and taking control of the structure of our schedule through disciplines like silence, solitude, and the Sabbath, that we regain the ability to devote sufficient attention to the things that really matter: “All the great wisdom traditions of history, religious and secular, Eastern and Western, Christian and not, have come together on one point: if there’s a formula for a happy life, it’s quite simple—inhabit the moment” (249).

Rather than the old Latin motto carpe diem would have it, Comer advises his readers not to seize the day, but simply to rest in it as a gift: “What if the day, what if time itself isn’t a scarce resource to seize but a gift to receive with grateful joy? I’m just trying to not miss the goodness of each day” (250). It is this grateful attention to the gifts of the present moment—and most of all, to God’s presence with us in that moment—that characterizes the kind of life that Comer presents as being the lifestyle of Jesus’s “easy yoke,” with an invitation open to all who would come and find rest.

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