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As Nina prepares to go on her second date with Max, she tries to remember what he looks like and realizes that she has created a fantasy of him in her mind. Max suggests that they go for a walk through Hampstead Heath, a place that holds special significance for Nina, as her parents took her there when she was a child. She worries that the nostalgia will overwhelm her and ruin the date, but as soon as she sees Max she is once again captivated by his good looks and her strong attraction to him. They picnic in the park while watching different couples interact and guessing their relationship statuses based on body language. They observe a child having a tantrum and Max outright asks Nina if she wants children. She says yes but admits that raising children frightens her. Max also wants children. He asks her why she is an only child, and Nina explains that her mother didn’t enjoy parenthood. She tells Max her father is ill, but he can see she doesn’t want to talk about it. Max tells Nina that he can’t stop thinking about kissing the back of her arms.
They begin walking home and Nina shows Max the Ladies Pond, a place that feels magical to her since it’s only used by women, and one day she hopes to take her daughter there. Max kisses her passionately in the alleyway, making her feel like a teenager again. She thinks, “I had discovered a second type of life that could happen with Max—a life that could run parallel to the everyday one with the ill dad and the disintegrating friendships and the monthly mortgage payments” (76). After he walks her home, she invites him inside. They have sex, and though Nina enjoys the experience, she can’t help but wonder about the other women Max has been with and how he brings all those experiences into their relationship. After that night, Max essentially moves in.
Nina and Max settle into the blissful early days of a relationship. They are more comfortable with each other but are still discovering new things about the other—though they both avoid discussing their fathers. They switch from texts to phone calls to communicate, explore the city together, and enjoy adventurous sex.
Nina meets with her publisher, Vivien, a stylish middle-aged woman Nina admires. Vivien shares that Nina’s first two books are doing well but she doesn’t like the proposal for the third book. Though Nina appreciates Vivien’s honest feedback, she is disappointed since she doesn’t have any other ideas for the book. Vivien advises Nina to “Live some life, then come back to me” (84). Nina tells Vivien about her new relationship. She asks Vivien’s advice about telling Joe about Max. Vivien tells her to be honest with him because men never forget their first love.
Nina meets Joe to see a movie. She thinks about how they still do all the same things they did when they were dating, except have sex. Nina recalls the reason for their breakup was that she and Joe became too comfortable with one another, and she began to see him as just a friend. Max is completely different from Joe both physically and emotionally. When Nina tells Joe about Max, he is surprised that she used a dating app and is seeing someone tall. Joe shares that he plans to propose to Lucy. Nina wonders why they never discussed marriage and makes several snarky comments about Lucy’s intentions to lock down Joe as a husband from day one, but Joe says he likes her assuredness in their relationship. Nina thinks they got a lot wrong about one another, but Joe responds, “We weren’t wrong […] We were growing up” (92).
Nina calls home and her mother answers the phone, frustrated that she must miss a party because Bill became confused over a death in their friend group. Dennis Wray died but Bill confused him with Paul Goldman and sent his wife a lengthy condolence letter, which upset her. Nina tells Nancy not to blame Bill for the mistake. Nina speaks to Bill and hears him struggle to hang up the phone properly. On the bus ride home, Nina ponders the sadness of having a sick parent. Later that night Nina hears Angelo and a friend loudly laughing below. She raises the window and shouts at him to be quiet, but he tells her no. Nina dresses and goes to Max’s apartment for comfort. She tells him that Joe said people rediscover what they want in life with each new relationship. Max agrees, but Nina admits that isn’t how she thought relationships worked. She tells Max she hopes they can preserve their strong attraction and the novelty of their relationship indefinitely.
Nina has lunch with Lola, who is distraught over her most recent boyfriend “ghosting” her, which she explains to Nina is when someone you love ceases all communication. Lola becomes emotional, worrying that her friendship with Nina will change now that Nina is in a relationship. Nina assures her that nothing will change and agrees to accompany Lola to a party where people are matched by their astrological signs.
Nina has plans with Katherine the following day, but Mark is hungover from the previous night’s engagement celebration with Joe and can’t watch the kids, so Nina heads over to their place instead. Katherine tells Nina that they found out the sex of the fetus but they’re keeping it a secret, which hurts Nina’s feelings. Katherine and Mark show Nina their prospective new home in Surrey and she thinks about how she could never afford a home like that, and if she could, she wouldn’t brag about it. Mark tells Nina that Joe looked up Max online and is angry about Max’s appearance. Mark jokes that he wants to be there when Nina introduces them.
The introduction happens several weeks later, and Nina meets Joe early to make it less awkward. He badgers her with questions about the depth of her connection to Max and she says it is serious. Joe asks Nina to be one of his ushers in the wedding and she happily accepts. Max arrives, and the tension is palpable as the two men exchange small talk while Nina exhausts herself trying to manage the emotional needs of both men. Things take a turn when Max admits to not reading Nina’s books. Nina also notices that Max is different around other people. When Joe asks about his hometown of Somerset, Max shares that his father left when he was 13 and moved to Australia and they don’t have a good relationship. Later, at home, Nina is annoyed that Max never told her about his father. Max tells her that she acts differently around Joe, claiming, “You seemed very eager to please” (115), which angers her, but they table the discussion, conceding that the meetup was awkward for everyone. However, Nina struggles to fall asleep, thinking about the meeting, her complicated feelings for Joe, and the new information she learned about Max.
The author develops the motif of ghosts in these chapters as Nina and Max grow closer, but Nina continues to feel haunted by his past relationships as well as hers. Though their second date ends with them having sex, Nina can’t fully enjoy the experience because she is thinking about all the other women Max has been intimate with, the assumption being that at their age, each person brings the ghosts of their past with them into each new relationship. However, Nina submits fully to the emotional pleasure of their new relationship and sees Max as an escape from the pain of her father’s illness and her crumbling friendship with Katherine. Nina’s meeting with her publisher, Vivien, jolts her back into real life as she learns she must devise a new idea for her third book. Then Nina speaks to her mother and learns that Bill’s confusion caused a blunder with their friends. Nina realizes that life doesn’t stop just because she has fallen in love, and she must still deal with the realities of being a woman in her thirties.
Nina’s bond with Joe adds another level of complexity to her life and relates to the theme of How Relationships Change and Evolve. In a twist, Joe shifted from being Nina’s romantic partner to one of her closest friends, but she is haunted by the ghost of their failed relationship. Nina must face this truth head-on when Joe announces his plans to get engaged. Nina’s outward derision of Lucy’s forwardness disguises her jealousy and brings her to an epiphany. Nina is cynical about conventional marriage, and though Joe is jealous of Max’s physical appearance, Nina is jealous of the love and stability that Joe finds with Lucy. Joe not so subtly suggests that he has matured in his view of relationships, leaving Nina to contemplate what she truly wants in a partner.
The awkward meeting between Joe and Max presents an opportunity for heightened external conflict, yet it becomes more of a clarifying moment for Nina, who hears Max share more about his life with Joe in a few minutes than he has in several months with her. She also hears Joe stand up for her when Max admits to not reading her books. As she works to manage the tension in the room, Nina bitterly reflects on the emotional load women carry in relationships, developing the theme of Gender Roles in Relationships. The meeting precipitates Nina and Max’s first argument and the first signs of trouble for the couple. Part 1 begins with an epigraph from Marcel Proust on the imaginative and subjective nature of love, and it is clear from Nina’s perception of the laws of attraction that she lives far more in her head than in her body. For Nina, love is not solely a response to the external characteristics of her partner but is heavily influenced by her subjective interpretations and projections, causing her to overthink every interaction and making it difficult for her to be fully present and engaged.
The ghosting motif continues as Lola shares that her budding relationship ended when the man vanished. Though Lola feels that Nina’s new relationship will drive a wedge between them, the story of her ghosting foreshadows what could happen to Nina. In contrast to her growing connection to Lola, Nina’s relationship with Katherine further deteriorates as Katherine hits her with multiple shocking life changes and seems to be keeping her at a distance. Haunted by her disintegrating connection to Katherine, Nina dives headfirst into a serious relationship with Max. Nina’s independence remains intact, but her actions reveal her need to have deep interpersonal connections, especially in times of stress. Perhaps Max’s lack of connection to anything in her life is what draws her to him. She mistakenly thinks of him as an escape from her problems and leverages too much of her emotional well-being in a person she barely knows.
By Dolly Alderton